It's been nearly three years since my last update. So, what's changed for me? Let's go back to 2018. I started work at a college writing center and was reasonably happy there for a couple of years. In December 2018, my dad (who some of you might remember as the source of a number of my issues while I was younger), died. I was able to see him before he did, and though he was unconscious, I got to tell him all the things I'd been bottling up for over a decade. It was cathartic, and it's the best I could have hoped for under the circumstances. In 2019, I was still working at the community college writing center. I was overworked, but it was important stuff. In February 2020, I turned 33. In March 2020, COVID-19 forced my campus to move to remote operations. From March to June, I tutored from home via email and video conferencing. In May of 2020, my partner, Tom, got a job offer for a company in Virginia. It was too good to pass up, so I quit my job and we resolved to make it work.